Wisdom

I’ve told you this before: don't let someone tell you how to feel about people. 

I’ve learned at my beautifully mature age, not only don’t let someone tell you how to feel about people, just as important, don’t let people tell YOU what YOU feel, what you think.

Always listen to good counsel [emphasis: good]. Ultimately how and what you feel is up to you, no one else.

You are the one who will be held accountable.

Your mental health, feelings, and choices are yours. Period.